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I struggled for 3 years with infertility, and after a first failed IVF and being given about a 10% chance of ever conceiving a child, I now have an almost 2 year old daughter from a second IVF. And here are my 2 cents: Definitely don't ask/tell her things like: "have you tried X" or "has he had his sperm count checked" or "I heard if you just relax and stop trying so hard it'll happen" or "there's always adoption" or "are you pregnant?" Also infertility can be very isolating, so try just be normal and not treat it like a dirty little secret (not that you would). Like others said just let her know you care and are there if she needs someone to talk to, go to the movies with, etc., and otherwise just be your normal self. You are clearly a good and supportive friend, so just keep being you!