I had the same exact thing with my son when I got pregnant with our second! Nursed him a LOT still at that time and I was SO sore the first 2 months:( I actually wound up running out of milk around 16 weeks and was surprised. My son was 16 months old and got so upset because he would try to nurse and nothing would come out. It was a rough couple weeks because he would just cry and cry and hated a bottle and never took one from the time of infancy on, but eventually he decided it was better than nothing and would use that to fall asleep...we coslept too and I would hold him and cuddle him and rock him and just tried everything and it was a rough transition but after the transition he went to sleep really well when I would give him a bottle and lay with him. It is such a rough time, but I think you'll be grateful that she is weaned before the tiny baby arrives and you get to have the special bonding time alone with new baby and the kids don't have to feel like they're fighting for mom<3 best of luck!
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