I’m in exactly the same situation,...almost 3 year old and almost 2 month old sons. I felt/still feel guilty about how much less attention I can give my older son but I have also noticed that he is becoming so much more imaginative and able to entertain himself more! He also loves interacting with the baby and helps out by bringing me things, showing the baby his toys, and “teaching him things.” I try to reinforce how much fun it will be when he’s older and they can really play together. So far the hardest thing for me has been trying to meet my older son’s needs (making meals, bathing him, putting him to bed) while breastfeeding the baby at the same time because the timing just never seems to work out well. I wear the baby in a carrier as much as possible to give myself free hands and have found it’s helpful if I pour out drinks to keep in the fridge on the bottom shelf and put the toddler snacks in the bottom cabinet so he can reach them himself. No other advice because I’m still trying to figure it out myself. I’m told it gets easier around 3 months but it’s REALLY hard right now!
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