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I am in the same boat as you. My husband has a 9 year old as well. We have every other sunday, every mon-thur after school and have sleepovers 2-3 nights a week. My husband and I both work 40 hours with opposite days off so we have child care coverage for our 11 month old. When I come home from working a 10hr shift and picking up my stepson from school I have about 30mins before the baby wakes up from her last nap of the day. Once she wakes I take on all responsibility of her while my husband only spends time with his son. My husband needs to sit in the same room while he does homework or does it with him, they do baseball almost every night of the week and then he has to be upstairs when his son takes a shower. It’s really annoying that he is 9 years old and can’t do anything himself and I have absolutely no free time. Ugh I literally feel like a single parent and that my husband is a glorified babysitter!! We just had a HUGE fight about this.