I wouldn’t change the name. It doesn’t sound like she purposely took your name being that she didn’t reveal any hints, unless you told her the name that you were planning to use? I guess that would be weird but maybe it didn’t matter to her if you both chose the same name. It is still special to you for the reasons you chose it and that’s all that matters. You may feel hurt right now but in time those feelings will fade (especially after the birth of yours) and you will be happy for your friend. Feel better soon mama!
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