Reply to Husband isn’t happy with family life

He knew the consequences of having a child. He decided to have ANOTHER. He wasnt thinking of his "dreams" then. How old is he may I ask? Is he going through mid life crisis maybe? If he wanted to focus so badly on himself he should have never had another kid so soon. He chose family life! I say go to counseling and let another person see what goes on and tell him that isnt what a father and husband does. If that doesnt seem to work out then maybe think about your next option. I know it is tough, relationships arent perfect and mine is far from it. Maybe get a babysitter one day a week and go out for date night?