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I would figure out what makes him feel loved. It could be thanking him more even for the things he does everyday or it could be telling him you love him more or perhaps more romance massages etc. to make him feel loved. He might appreciate a small gift or thank you message every so often. It might also be helpful to go out for dinner and talk about things. Sometimes things get more heated in private then in public. Hope that helps!