@lulu... thanks. No I didn’t miss understand you I just realized that my “problem” is actually not really that bad... while yes, boundaries are key which are sometimes difficult to set. While I’m glad my wife and I have begun discussing some of my concerns and interests in us taking the lead with schedules for visits I also know that since this is her family she likely has no issues with them wanting to do what they want when they want as much as it is my issue etc... In the end we are blessed to have a daughter as it took us over 3 years and several IVFs that my own “minor issues” are truly not any real major issues. My buddies have been providing me advice and understand my concerns and frustrations and encourage me to continue to share with my wife etc... Thanks again Lulu. Good luck!
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