We also tried CIO when our lil was younger and was an issue and didn’t work. Tried again at 9 months and I stopped feeding at night and this time it worked. For about a week, my hubby was the one to go in and rub her back a little before she fell back asleep so she didn’t sense me or the milk and it worked. One or two rough nights. With you not there I think it will be completely different experience. We decided to give another try after she spent a few night at my parents and went down easier and slept mostly thru the night. Realized she didn’t really need me... or the night feedings.
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