Reply to Ugh worst nightmare - baby turned away from me and into MIL arms

My LO does that to us to with my mom. Whether it be in law or parents that’s a very hurtful thing. I hate when they say they’re going to spoil my kids so they’d rather stay there. It may seem trivial but why would you want to do something 1. Isn’t good for the child just because it may make them happy, spoiling is not good! 2. Wanna do something so the child doesn’t wanna go to the parents. Also just because someone watches your child for free isn’t the best thing. When you pay childcare they’re to uphold your expectations and rules. Family somehow think it doesn’t apply to them. I tell my mom it’s not cool to say that.