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I’m sorry your husband’s family doesn’t seem to appreciate you. I would also be pissed about this. Since this does bother you, I would talk to my husband and share my feelings; and maybe it’s time you stopped going over there for Christmas. It sucks when your in-laws aren’t what you want. I always wanted hands off in-laws and I got very very hands off in-laws. So much that my daughter has only seen her father side grandparents twice and she is year old. My husband loves to remind me I wanted a hands off mother in law 🤷🏻‍♀️