I’m curious what your husbands were like before you had kids. Anyway, both my husband and I work full time. On week days he leaves before my daughter and I wake up, so I get her up and ready and to daycare. From birth, we started a routine where he does bathtime at night for some alone time with baby. And one weekend morning he gets up with her so I can sleep another hour. Otherwise, we split things about evenly. He’s super involved. But I knew he would be, since we have always split cleaning and cooking, and when we had a baby I made sure he was involved from the start.
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