If you’re both working on building your home, you being out of commission for the duration of a pregnancy will put a lot of pressure on him. Also with a newborn to care for, you will be unable to help him and he will be unable to help you with the baby if he’s busy on the house. Resentment in both directions is a possible outcome. My husband built a tiny house to use as an office during my pregnancy and it took a lot longer than expected with him doing it alone, and having certain time sensitive parts that NEEDED to happen at a certain time. Weather proofing, installing all the windows and doors that would have sat in the driveway, etc. house building and baby making are NOT a good mix.
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