This totally happen to me. I hated even the thought of having sex knowing what just happen down there. It did hurt. The tiredness will never go away lol but it’s a normal for most of us that we get used too. Try some lube and just tell him how you’re feeling. Men are ready to go all the time and after a baby, I am not. I need to be romanced and have some fore play. So maybe just take a shower with him while baby is napping, or first thing in the morning. Have him give you back rubs and kisses. Tell him it has to go back to the way it was at the very beginning. Sorry so long!! I hope this helps. It will get better I promise!
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