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Anonymous

“My friend recently told me to ask my husband to take the lead one night a week...ie make dinner, clean up, put baby to bed etc in order to give me a break...” 1) If your husband is home, why isn’t he helping out with all of these thing every night? 2) why is the burden on you to ask? He’s a grown man who should be perfectly capable of taking it upon himself to step up and do his part without being prompted. All that said, my partner jumps in as soon as she gets home, helps a lot, and I still don’t want to have sex. I just want quiet, to be alone, maybe read for ten minutes uninterrupted...but I def don’t want anymore cuddles, let alone sex.