Reply to How do you guys split holidays with family and in laws?

We used to run around thanksgiving & Christmas to my parents, his dad and his mom. Finally I just had enough. Since my family never seemed to have traditional thanksgiving food and that was a bigger holiday for his family to get together we now go to his grandma house with his his mom for thanksgiving. My parents are usually out of town visiting my aunt so we don’t do anything with them. Christmas my family does more with that so we do Christmas with them. Over the past year or so his mom has been doing more with Christmas but she usually goes to everyone house individually to give gifts nothing big. And we kind of just don’t go see his dad but he never talks to anyone so.