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I had the worst step mom that didn’t care about what we needed and she was the only woman in my life at the time. I definitely would have appreciated a step mom that cares like you. It is something that still bothers me today that a woman could do that to a little girl who didn’t have her mom lol. So I think you’re awesome for caring so much. If mom doesn’t want to do it then you definitely should. It will mean a lot to your step daughter too. My aunt bought me my first bra. Lol. Your step daughter will remember that you bought her, her first too.