That is my 3 year old and 2 year old right now. My 5 year old was my easy child and when my 3 year old was 1 1/2 years old, he would bang his head on the floor out of pure frustration because he couldn’t communicate. Kids can pick up on your vibes and yelling only causes them to feel like they have to walk on eggshells around you or else if they mess up, you might yell. They are still figuring out the world and it is scary to them. They just want to know that no matter what “everything will be okay” and it will. They look to you for stability and peace. I know its crazy but meet some friends, stay outside longer (outside and animals helps calm my headbanger). It may be a sensory issue with the head banging. You can do this! If you don’t have the strength then pray and ask God to give it to you.
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