Of course other men spend time parenting their children while supporting the family. Parenting isn’t just providing financial support or putting roof on their heads or just buying food. I guess you fell in the roles of past times where u take care of kids n he works. If you want change you are gonna have to work at it. Your are not being harsh and unappreciative; the father needs to do his half of parenting. I don’t know how you do this with twins all by yourself; props to you. Sit down with your husband and have a discussion and tell him how this is affecting the babies and his relationship and your marriage. Have him make small Changes to be present in the family life.
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