Don’t feel guilty to say no to people. It’s true when they say “they grow so fast”. My husband and I spent first 2 months saying yes and putting our family members happiness (she is first grand baby on both sides) before ours and we both now realize that we need to put our own happiness (and our own troubles) before our family members’. I actually am in therapy because I felt robbed of my maternity leave - not a serious thing but I’ve had a tough time letting things go. My husband invited our family over the day I came home! Within 2 hours they were at my house... Anyways, be strong in your journey of motherhood. You were blessed with your baby and despite what others say or think, you are the mom and you will make the best decision for your baby.
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