Oh nooo. I’m so sorry. I’d stop allowing any overnights and even day visits. Your parents cannot make decisions for your child. You’re the parent now, not them. I’d tell them that until they can respect your rules and boundaries they can’t have alone time with your kids. Also, please be careful about letting them make decisions for your child. The only incident where grandparents rights apply in court rulings is those where grandparents can show they have an existing bond and have been granted decision making power by the custodial parent. I’m not sure they’d take you to court over your child but I wanted to float that. Everything you’re describing is not ok. You’re a good mom for getting your son out of your brothers way. Good luck.
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