I would take him to court ! File for visitation that way it can be a set schedule for your children & if he starts missing his set visitation document it . Eventually two things will happen he will get his shit together or you will gain full custody and get my child support out of him . One thing I’ve learned you can’t force someone to be there if they don’t want to . I know it sucks and it may be unfair for you . But all you can do is be the best mother you can for them . If you ever feel overwhelmed don’t feel guilty on finding a babysitter for a few hours and having some alone time .
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