I’m a SAHD, and I think it’s completely unfair. This job is difficult AF but rewarding. Both parents should be involved. Doesn’t matter who works. I would not have baby #2. It won’t end well for you. If he won’t help with one, he definitely won’t help with two. This will bite him in the arse when he wants to connect with his child. My dad was not around and my step dad was not involved really. Both of these sad scenarios have pushed me to be the best dad I can be. There are a lot of husbands who are heavily involved despite being the working parent and then there are some who are so damn selfish and blind that they can’t see that they are the lead and set the tone for their families. Sorry you are going though this situation.
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