Attempting to be Patient with my Husband
I’m a full time working mom of twins, my husband works full time too. Life is busy life is stressful. My husband is a great Dad. But he is not good with helping around the house. He works a 9-5 type job, he usually goes to the gym and doesn’t get home until 7:30ish pm. I do shift work, so I work 7-7 three days a week. The kids are with Grandma when we are both at work. The issue with my schedule is that I often get stuck with the shoveling, raking leaves, calling someone to fix the appliance that is broken ect ect. Not to mention I cook for the kids do laundry ect ect. I bathe the kids on the days I’m off. (He never does this) He will do things if I ask him to, sometimes it takes multiple askings. I am just frazzled. And I feel like I’m damaging our relationship by continuous nagging him about things ... but idk what else to do. Because I NEED help. Advice?