You should have a discussion about raising the child together and that means he needs to do his job as a father. Feed, burp, change, hold, rock, comfortably and anything else that needs done. He should also be doing the house work; you can split that up. At first the baby might not the way dad does things but with time the way his dad does things will be comforting for him. It’s all about how you and your baby want to be treated in the relationship. Good luck
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