My husband and I have been trying for a baby for awhile. We have over time gathered a lot. Like most things. But I still want a baby shower when the time comes. This was brought up at a get together. I was chewed out by multiple people that it was dumb and unnecessary. That a baby shower is for people who need things. I wouldn’t like make a registry or anything or expect a gift. But I would love to get showered with love from friends and family and celebrate a happy time together. I felt really embarrassed. But I stand by that you can have a baby shower whether you need or want more baby stuff. I just want to see others views. Also just vent.