I’m struggling with holding my tongue with my mother in law right now. I thought our head count for our child’s first birthday party was done until I get one of our invites “return to sender” with her handwriting on it. SHE SENT OUT OUR INVITES to people and we didn’t even know but I’m curious as to how she got her hands on them. I was already ordering food and cake with the head count I already had to this point but now I have no idea who else she sent things to and if I should have to wait OR how this will affect the budget we had in place for a small get together that she has decided to add people to herself. Am I wrong in being angry. It isn’t the first time she’s overstepped in our house.