I need to know how everyone else divies up the chores. I am a stay at home mom and my husband works (but not full time). He is responsible for mowing the lawn...that's it. The rest is on me. We have a 2 year old and a 6 month old. He won't even put the 2 year old to bed and he has never given either of them a bath. So, at bed time, it's always so hectic because no matter who I try to get to bed first, the other one always needs me. So, sometimes I'm holding a screaming baby while bathing, changing, reading/singling to and tucking in a toddler. Is that just the way it is? Or is my hubby kind of a jerk because while I'm doing that he's down stairs with his feet up, watching TV and playing video games.