Posted in Divorce & Separation, Relationships


So my husband and I are going through a divorce. I can’t get him to stick to a visitation schedule of any kind. I always get the “I have to work” excuse and “I don’t have a set schedule.” I’m always with the kids and hardly ever get a break. I’m almost more than sure he goes out after work and I stay in with the kids. It upsets me immensely. Am I wrong? Should I be greatful I’m with the kids the majority of the time? I can’t help but be resentful bc we chose to have these children together and it’s all me now.

  • JJ
    Oct 26, 2018

    I would document all this and make sure that a lawyer or court system is aware to be sure you’re getting the appropriate support and have it on paper in case he or his side of the family decides to do something stupid down the road. Protect yourself and your babies first. Ask others for help so you can get some rest.

  • Rosa
    Nov 16, 2018

    I would take him to court ! File for visitation that way it can be a set schedule for your children & if he starts missing his set visitation document it . Eventually two things will happen he will get his shit together or you will gain full custody and get my child support out of him . One thing I’ve learned you can’t force someone to be there if they don’t want to . I know it sucks and it may be unfair for you . But all you can do is be the best mother you can for them . If you ever feel overwhelmed don’t feel guilty on finding a babysitter for a few hours and having some alone time .