Commute or move
Currently live in a town that we love with great schools, great walkable downtown, and our family is all within a few mins, but spouse is taking a job that is only 18 miles away, but the commute is about an hour because of awful traffic. He wants to move so we are within 5 mins of his office, and the schools are actually even better there, but it’s not the same feel. I love our town and it’s where I wanted to raise our family. He works a lot so it’s nice having family around to spend time with that I can quickly go to their house. I’m not sure what the best choice is, but I’d rather live where we are and it’s creating a fight between us because he wants to move since he works so much. Ready to scream!