Dating after divorce
I have been divorced twice, with one child from each marriage. My kids are 4 and 7. I have been through extensive therapy to determine why I keep choosing the wrong type of personality traits in a partner, as well as my own issues, and after 2 years I believe I’m finally ready to find the right person. I’m very concerned that I won’t be able to find someone who will be willing to handle dealing with two different ex-husbands/fathers in my life. I am also able to accept that I may just need to wait until my children are 18 to find someone else since I have a complex situation. I know that I would have a hard time dating someone who had a situation like mine. Do you think it’s even possible to find someone after all of this? My main priority is definitely my kids, although my therapist and several friends keep telling me I’m allowed to find happiness with someone and move on, I just don’t know that I’ll be able to do that.