Reply to Husband is so negative

Sounds like a control problem that he has, what does he do for work? It's highly possible that he has no control while he's at his job and so he could be taking that out at home it also sounds like an anger problem then honestly he could probably do with some therapy this isn't resolved itself. He needs to learn that the only things he has control over is himself his thoughts and his deeds anything other than that is out of his control and he needs to accept that. I suggest that he read some books about stoicism