Does every child learn different
Hello I’m a first-time mom to a two-year-old little boy. My question is this does every child two years old have a certain timeframe to learn certain things. The reason behind this is because yesterday I came home from a hard days work for his grandparents to Yell at me and say that my son is slow.My son is currently in daycare and he is one of their best children there. He knows how to count sing tell you when he wants something. he isn’t great with talking as far as saying certain words currently. He turned two in September I think he’s on the right path. He catches on quickly and know what’s right and wrong. His grandparents went to a birthday party and saw other two-year-olds that can I guess speak clear sentences and they judging my child by that. They also got mad because I want my son to learn Spanish as my son is half trinidadian and Spanish. I do want my son to be trilingual. I speak to my son in Spanish sometimes and also at daycare they do help and that was out of my request. He does understand English very well As we mostly speak English . Should I be OK with his grandparents seeing my son is slow and that I have to get a new daycare and he’s been there for almost a year. His dad feels like I’m overreacting. But I think it’s disrespectful and rude. My son is very smart and a lot of people say that he catches on quickly and he knows a lot he may not talk clearly but he can talk. if I felt he was delayed or notice any issues I would address them. They told my boyfriend (father) and he told him to pay for a better daycare. The daycare also tells you how there doing. Ive seen a huge change in his learning since staying daycare. I’ve even went and sat there for full days I feel like I was disrespected as they were judging/ comparing my son to other kids. .. Any advice?