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My work is definitely affected by my kids and I don’t even work from home. Sometimes I get so preoccupied thinking about them of stressing about family stuff that I can be practically useless at work, and it’s hard sometimes for it not to, but I do try. In my job I’m on call 24/7, but my rule is once I’m out of the building or done for the day, I’m DONE unless there is some catastrophic emergency. Set limits like that with your hubby. Tell him between the hours of A-B that he needs to figure shit out himself and then he can have your help any other time. You don’t drive to his work and hand him the baby so you can shower in peace do you?