Father not involved
Im a SAHM with a toddler and a newborn. Pretty much I hate my life and at this point i do not like my husband. He used to be supportive with the first one but pretty much he gave up all his responsibilities, except providing shelter and food. Sometimes I would talk to him to take us places and he would do so. Then when we argue about choreses at home he would bring up the places and trips we had done together. On daily basis he will come home around 4pm lay down for an hour have dinner then either he goes out to the gym or to hung out with his friends or he stays on the couch surfing the internet or talking on his phone. My daughter was diagnosed with speech delay (which he doesn’t believe she has) and he is not involved in the therapy because quote and quote he doesn’t want to. Im so tired of arguing with him about not being in there life and if i yell he yells back about what he calls my responsibilities as a wife like fixing three meals and ironing his clothes ( I don’t do those). On the other hand, he is not a bad person and very generous but not the father i wanted for my kids. We just finished arguing about taking my toddler to her gymnastics class and he refused when I said many fathers take their kids to the recreation center he responded ( stupids). I just wish he is more involved in his kids lives.