Reply to I need perspective dealing with infertile friend.
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Alexis, thank you. So far I’ve been allowing the distance because I thought it may be best, but she says she wants to still be close friends but her actions just don’t match up. Around the time we each got married, we became distant also, and I allowed it to happen thinking that time in our life was just over and she came to talk to me and told me she was upset that I allowed the distance and wished that I had talked to her about it. We became close again after that. I’m getting mixed messages (words versus actions) and don’t want to make the same mistake again. Friendships in adulthood are tough. 🤦🏽‍♀️