Reply to Great father, bad husband.

Dealing with the same thing and it’s been over four years now. We will go weeks without the arguing but then all hell breaks loose for about a week, and this cycle repeats. He’s a wonderful dad and provider, but we have both acknowledged we would rather be apart and happy than bring up our daughter seeing us constantly fight. We love each other and know that we don’t want that, we just continue to work on ourselves. I completely feel you on the whole him judging you with everything you do with your dd. I feel like he does the same thing and that’s also something else that leads to majority of arguments! It’s hard in relationships but so much harder when you add kids!! Hang in there and if it doesn’t work out, it’s for the best.