My husband and I just found out we are pregnant with baby no. 2! BUT I’m in a dilemma. I want this pregnancy to be as peaceful as possible and with that I want limited people knowing for as long as I can. I know eventually family will come around and see my bump, but until then I don’t know how to not let people know. The thing is, we have parties and holidays coming up where alcohol will be around, my family knows I am a social drinker and can pass on alcohol at any time, but how do I keep them from being suspicious without the “I just don’t want to drink” comment being said whenever I get offered something. Also, My stepdaughter will find out obviously before family, but I know she will go and tell her mother and her mother will tell family (because she still talks to them), so how do I go about putting a stop to that without being rude about it? TIA!