How to not resent my husband??
How do you all keep yourselves from resenting your husbands when your workload is unequal. We both work full time. I almost always cook dinner, I clean up dinner, I do all the laundry except my husband’s, I get kids to and from day care, I give baths, I pay bills. my husband does watch the kids when he is off work and I am working. He also helps get the kids to bed when he is not working. If he does more than 50% I have to hear about it. He is like that with everything. It honestly makes me want to strangle him. If I say anything it will be a fight so I let him basically do whatever to avoid fights in front of the kids. It would be annoying if he was pleasant to be around aside from that, but he gets crappy with me or the kids every day. I love him but just cannot get past the unfairness of it all. Do others just suck it up? I can’t figure out if my situation is really bad or if others just deal with it better than me.