How to tell my friend I’m pregnant whose struggling with infertility
A good friend of mine has been struggling with infertility since the birth of my daughter 1.5 years ago. She’s since gone through 2 ivf cycles, multiple surgeries and tests and nothing is working. We’ve had our struggles because I have my daughter and it’s hard for her to see me sometimes but I’ve been a big source of support for her and am always there to listen. I went through my own fertility treatments to have my daughter but now recently found out we got accidentally pregnant. Im heartbroken for her. Literally the moment I found out I was pregnant my husband jumped for joy but I cried because I knew she was gonna be heartbroken and I felt life is just so unfair. I’m scared to tell her. Scared she’ll shut me out, Scared she’ll stop talking to me, be mad and hate me. She recently got some awful news which will prevent her from getting pregnant for many months due to needing surgery again and she just went through her second IVF cycle. I’m coming up to 12 weeks. I have to tell her. I don’t know how. I don’t know how to tell her.