Husband is so negative
My husband gets In these moods every week or so where he gets irritated over anything and everything. Last night he took over dinner because I wasn’t making it right. If I did this to him he would be pissed at me. I let him take over and then he follows me around complaining and scolding me in front of the kids. Other nights I ask him to watch dinner so I can watch the kids and he gets nasty about it (he will be watching tv after working so he isn’t watching kids or helping with dinner and I am trying to do both then giving them baths. I work full time too!) He is hot and cold constantly and out of nowhere. His mom acts the same way and he complains that she does this to his dad but he does the exact same to me !! Basically until he acts like a total jerk to all of us he can’t get over his pissy mood. I can’t even have an adult conversation about it because he wants me to drop it and if I don’t, I am just being a drama queen. It is so damn frustrating! Our kids are going to be just like him in the same way he is just like his mom. He always has an excuse and I don’t know how to explain that no, he is just being a jerk and if this is how he chooses to act over and over he isn’t crabby or tired or hungry, he is just a jerk and if he doesn’t change, our kids will be just like him with their spouse. At what point is it better to raise your kids in a single parent home so they can have some emotional constancy? I am not perfect but who bitches at someone for not making dinner the right way?! He keeps saying he will work on it but does nothing and I am 90% sure he will continue to do nothing.