Husband isn’t happy with family life
Our first pregnancy was unplanned, and second we planned so our first wouldn’t be lonely. Lately we argue once a week it feels like and he stays over somewhere else when we go. He’s said he resents me and the kids (toddler and infant) and he misses his old life and he had dreams and now it’s on the back burner. I don’t have sex with him as much because ever since the babies it hurts and he complains about that. He’s called me a lame prude and he’s apologized. We had a talk, and he said he wants to split the kids three days each so he could have three days to focus on his school and career and have his time. I told him it wasn’t fair. I don’t know what to do? He says he wants me to be happy and that I deserve better and I’m the best wife and mother he could ask for. But he wants to be free and not be controlled. I have dreams too, I want to travel as well but I know with kids it’ll take longer and I’m okay with that. I know I can’t do as I please and that’s fine my kids are my world and I feel like it’s not fair but what else can we do?