Husband isn’t the man I want to raise a family with
I just feel so torn, as a person he can be fun and we can have a good time. Around our babies I hate him. He has no patience yells at them constantly for crying takes them away and either put them in the swing or room if they cry out for me too much and I can’t get them just yet instead of calming them down. I’ve tried reason with him and teach him the tricks but he says “you think you’re the better parents? Don’t tell me how to parent etc” I hate seeing my babies treated like that. My infant was crying as I was cooking today, she was hungry and he was playing his game then got upset she was crying and yelled “fucking stop crying dude you’re so annoying” then stop fucking crying, you’re such a crybaby. I told him to feed her the bottle he said okay and kept playing. I needed to study today for a test this morning, he was asleep I asked to get up and take her so I can study he just wouldn’t. I just wanna take my kids and leave but then I won’t know how he’s treating them when I’m not around. I want to leave but at the same time stay till the babies can talk so if he ever mistreats them they can tell me. I don’t know, how do you deal?