Husband wants me to lose weight
My husband frequently mentions that we should “both” go to the gym yet makes no effort to go himself but gets mad that I don’t go, even though I do go more frequently than him. Claims he wants our family to be “healthy” despite encouraging poor eating habits. Says he doesn’t want me to be unhappy when I see photos of myself and I look big. Really I think he doesn’t want to have a fat wife. I don’t feel I’m given enough opportunity to go, and after a 14 hour day with our kids ( our daughter doesn’t nap), and after I clean up all the mess of the day (putting away toys, dishes) going to the gym is the last thing I want to do. I’m 5”4 and weigh about 170 pounds. I don’t love my body, but I want my husband to love me for the person I am on the inside, not the outside. Sometimes, I do feel like he focuses too much on my physical appearance and it makes me feel bad about myself. We have 2 kids. 4 years and 8 months. I guess just looking for some advice how to handle the situation.