I am not sure if I am overreacting and I wanted to get feedback.
Last week I had a play date with a friend that has a daughter that is 2.5 y/o. My son is 3.5. They were playing in a splash pad. There were two older girls playing there as well, they were about 9 and 10. My son was sitting by me eating some goldfish and my friends daughter was playing with the older girls. She was touching their face. I said to my friend "Your daughter is really friendly. She is over there touching those girls face" My friend responded by laughing and said "Well your son isn't very friendly" That made me upset. I said to her "He doesn't need friends. He is like his mom we aren't friendly" Her comment really upset me. I don't feel like my comment to her was judgmental i just made an observation. I am overreacting by her comment? I am very protective of my kids and I no longer want to have my child around this "Friend" Friends don't say things like that. What do you think?