I am so disappointed with my husband
We have a 2yo daughter, and we’re also expecting our 2nd. We currently live with his father. His sister lives in the same neighborhood. Recently our daughter has become super picky and selective with her meals. She’ll easily skip lunch, snacks and dinner. As you can imagine I’m super stressed and have been considering taking her to see her pediatrician. I’ve noticed that my husband’s family is obsessed with sweets even though his father is a severe diabetic. They have cookies, cupcakes, chocolates and all types of candy in the house. When my sister in law comes by she’ll just give our daughter candy without running it by me at all. When Im in the kitchen making dinner, my FIL will just start offering chocolate to our daughter, even though he sees me making dinner. I spoke to my husband about it, (his family is super sensitive and I thought it would be better if he speaks to them instead) my husband said he would speak to them, but obviously did not. When my SIL came by today, he allowed her to take our daughter without a jacket, pants nor shoes to her house. When I asked him to please go get her an hour later because it was time for lunch and then a nap; he was scared to go get her because he thought he would upset his father, after he saw me getting angry he went and brought our daughter back with a box of cookies. Of course she didnt want lunch and cried bloody murder because she wanted the cookies instead. I don’t know if we’re clashing so much because of cultural differences, but I feel like Im the only one looking out for our kid’s well being. It’s frustrating especially because im due in one month, and I honestly feel like I have no one to rely on. Sorry for the long post.