I don’t know who this human is
I have a 12 year old daughter who is like a total stranger to me. This year has been a challenge to say the least. She has ADHD and needs additional motivation to do anything on good days. Right now, lying about everything. Goes to school and doesn’t do her work. She had a take home test I asked her about 3 times. I was told it was done days ago. Then Saturday and Sunday. She didn’t do it, took it at school during her free time at got a 33. I have tried positive reinforcement, taking everything away, sitting down and just talking to her and nothing works.