I dont trust my bf mom to be alone with my baby.. Any suggestions???
My boyfriend and I have a daughter who is now 4 months old, I do not trust anyone alone with my baby except my mom/ family. I’m a first time mom & I breastfeed my daughter. My boyfriend’s mom keeps pushing for alone time with my daughter, Which i do go in and out of the room but to ana extent. We have gone to his house and I noticed this calendar in the kitchen and his mom will be charting it with happy & sad faces (happy=we came over , sad= we didnt go over), which i think is so unnecessary. I did confront her about to ask what those meant on the calendar and she told me that, and i told her i thought it was unnecessary to be charting it down like that. it’s got to a point where my boyfriend makes it a problem if I leave my daughter with my mom. He tries to tell me that I dont like his family or trust his family, but I trust mine and it isn’t fair. Everytime we go over to his parents house to visit, he always takes the baby to say hi, and i follow because wherever my baby goes I go. We just got into another argument about this and wasn’t the first time about me not trusting his mom to be alone with baby, is there any suggestions or how to go about this?? Am I the only one?? He makes me feel like I’m so over protective of my baby, and I think thats how it should be.. she is my responsibility.. what are your thoughts??