Is this normal?
I’m at my wit’s end with my youngest. She’s 4, 5 in June. She’s been super aggressive, screaming at the top of her lungs at us, her teachers, and anyone who doesn’t give her her way. Saying she hates us, biting herself or her clothes. She flips out when someone takes her stuff and when her routine is changed. We set boundaries at home, she just started at her new daycare 3 weeks ago because her dad and I both work there. They have a lot more structure than her last daycare, who let her do whatever because she’s “too difficult”. We’ve tried time outs, taking stuff, giving her stuff when she acts right. I don’t know what to do. She has a behavioral assessment on the 17th. She’s starting Kindergarten in the fall and I know this behavior isn’t tolerated. Please help!