I’m sure a lot of you have read about the “mental load” of being a mom. I feel this everyday. My Husband and I both work full time and although he does help a lot with the kids and has certain chores he does. I still feel like it’s a fraction of what I do. He doesn’t see the messes - he doesn’t understand that the kids can’t live on chicken nuggets. He doesn’t buy the car seats. What’s worse if my husband is NOT a handy guy. So, half the time when things break around the house it’s ... A. Me nagging him to try and figure out how to fix it. B. Me trying to fix it. C. Me calling my father to help fix it. It just drives me nuts. When I try to talk to him about it tells me to just let him know what he needs me to do. Which just irritates me. He also gets mad at me nagging. He says I’m constantly telling him he’s not good enough and that he tries. He does try ... but his efforts sometimes weak or in attentive. I dunno, just wondering if any of you have dealt with this and has anybody had any luck making it better? He s a good Dad. I just am SO tired and becoming resentful.